Questions to Get Started
Mentoring is just-in-time help, insight into issues, and the sharing of expertise, values, skills, and perspectives. Mentors function as a catalyst—an agent that provokes a reaction that might not otherwise have taken place or speeds up a reaction that might have taken place in the future.
Ask yourself the following questions to assist with selecting an appropriate mentor.
Who knows me well enough to nominate me for positions?
Who in our organization/profession makes assignments, appoints committees, task forces, and so forth?
Who has the particular expertise that I lack? Who might be willing to teach me?
Who knows the political aspects of our organization/profession? Who could give me good advice on how I might ensure success?
Who knows me and my skills but also is in the know about our organization or profession? Would that person be willing to put my name forward?
Who do I want to be like? Whose style am I comfortable with?
Who do I go to when I need a boost? Who helps me feel that everything will be OK?
Who do I feel comfortable sharing my feelings with? Who do I believe is wise in the ways of the world?
Who do I connect with? Who do I want to spend more "quality time" with?